Terms

The house rules

Short, and enforced rather than merely hoped for. This is the part of the small print that actually describes the place, so it is worth thirty seconds before you decide we are for you.

Everyone is 18 or over

Age is verified. There is no route in for anyone under 18, and an account found to belong to someone under 18 is closed.

The early dates are not sexual

This is the rule of the place, and the reason most people are here. Steering an early date towards sex — in person, or in the few words the app does let you send — breaches these rules, and doing it after being told costs the account. Nobody here has to ask for that; everyone agreed to it on the way in.

Slow is not a promise of anything later

Taking it slowly is not a schedule with a destination at the end. Nobody on Peony owes anybody a second date, a continuation, or anything else, and withdrawing at any moment needs no explanation. Pressuring someone is the fastest way to lose your account.

Turn up, or cancel properly

A confirmed date holds a deposit from both sides. Not appearing forfeits it, and part of it goes to the person who was left waiting. Cancelling is always allowed and costs less the earlier you do it.

The meeting point is the meeting point

It is public, it is chosen to be a fair journey for both of you, and it does not change.

Behaviour on a date counts

Harassment, coercion, recording someone without their agreement, or turning up impersonating someone else will end your account, and where it is a crime we will treat it as one.

One person, one account

Accounts are personal and verified. Do not share one, sell one, or open a second after one has been closed.

Using this website

This site is provided for information about Peony. We keep it accurate but make no guarantee that it is complete or current, and nothing here is an offer or a contract. The app's own terms will govern the app.

These terms are governed by the law of England and Wales.

Questions

help@peony.social, or the support page.